How Can I Tell If A Women Is Interested?
This is actually a very good question. I believe women are sometimes complicated in the ways they communicate their interest towards men. A guy speaks with his eyes while a women speaks with her actions. Women are hardwired to act and respond differently than men. Generally men are just driven by pure animalism, and are therefore programmed to subconsciously look for a girl that has high reproductive values. That is why men normally look for certain body features, such as small waist and wide hips, because subconsciously it tells them that she may have a good chance of having kids. Whereas women just want a good mate with the characteristics of being a good provider and protector. A male who
will generally care about her and their potential offsprings.
Regardless of the culture or race, women speak the same body language. Look at what she does and ignore what she says, these are called indication of interest. A women who is interested in you will do the following without exception, FORGET ALL THAT NONSENSE about her being shy:
* Will initiate conversation
* Will lightly touch you while talking
* Will ask your name, age, ethnicity etc.
* If she has a boyfriend will seldom mention this fact
* Will seldom ask you to buy her a drink, in the initial meeting
* Plays with her hair while talking to you
* Looks at your eyes when you talk
* Leans in while talking to you
* Puts her hand on your leg
* Attempts to hold your attention
* Types her telephone number on your cell phone
How Do I avoid Silly Arguments?
I think that dating is all about respect and communication. Anytime there is a miscommunication, you can just think back exactly where the communication broke down. You have to admit, you can never get mad at someone if they were upfront with you from the start. On the flip side, you are totally within reason to get mad a someone who misled you from the beginning.
A person can't possibly expect you to "call every night" or "take them out and foot the bill every time," unless that was the understanding. Assumptions are the key ingredients for a very disastrous relationship. Sometimes it is quite OK to clear the air and speak your mind at the expense of offending someone, as long as you do it with respect and love.
Lets face it, we are all humans, we sometimes tend to bottle things up rather than express them, and soon thereafter there is an explosion of sorts. But that is not to say that you want to go speaking your mind every chance you get and letting things fly just for the sake of offending your mate or date. But sometimes an open dialogue is quite refeshing and therepudic. Just maybe your sweetheart did not know what was on your mind or knew that you felt particularly strong about a certain something. Guess what? If you told him, he might just get mad at first but then you may soon realize that he has more respect for you because now he knows how you feel and operate.
How Do I Avoid That "Uncomfortable Silence" On A Date?
You know talking to your date can sometimes be hard. I think the more crazy you get in your conversations, the better. The reason I say this is because the mind works in crazy ways. You can start talking about your first job and end up steering the conversation into something totally unrelated, like something funny that happened to you a long time ago while on your way to school.
The point I'm trying to make is that our minds work by association. Just picture your conversations with your date as one big crossroad. You may start on one road that leads to another road etc, etc. I think that is what makes it so fun. My mother once told me that once you stop talking to your mate its like the song just ends. Please check out our Top 50 First Date Questions so that you can improve your chances of convincing her to come out on a second date. Believe it or not, these dating questions could just as easily apply to any couple, not just necessarily on a first date. Check them out!
How Can I Tell If A Women Is Interested?
This is actually a very good question. I believe women are sometimes complicated in the ways they communicate their interest towards men. A guy speaks with his eyes while a women speaks with her actions. Women are hardwired to act and respond differently than men. Generally men are just driven by pure animalism, and are therefore programmed to subconsciously look for a girl that has high reproductive values. That is why men normally look for certain body features, such as small waist and wide hips, because subconsciously it tells them that she may have a good chance of having kids. Whereas women just want a good mate with the characteristics of being a good provider and protector. A male who
will generally care about her and their potential offsprings.Regardless of the culture or race, women speak the same body language. Look at what she does and ignore what she says, these are called indication of interest. A women who is interested in you will do the following without exception, FORGET ALL THAT NONSENSE about her being shy:
* Will initiate conversation
* Will lightly touch you while talking
* Will ask your name, age, ethnicity etc.
* If she has a boyfriend will seldom mention this fact
* Will seldom ask you to buy her a drink, in the initial meeting
* Plays with her hair while talking to you
* Looks at your eyes when you talk
* Leans in while talking to you
* Puts her hand on your leg
* Attempts to hold your attention
* Types her telephone number on your cell phone
How Do I avoid Silly Arguments?
I think that dating is all about respect and communication. Anytime there is a miscommunication, you can just think back exactly where the communication broke down. You have to admit, you can never get mad at someone if they were upfront with you from the start. On the flip side, you are totally within reason to get mad a someone who misled you from the beginning.A person can't possibly expect you to "call every night" or "take them out and foot the bill every time," unless that was the understanding. Assumptions are the key ingredients for a very disastrous relationship. Sometimes it is quite OK to clear the air and speak your mind at the expense of offending someone, as long as you do it with respect and love.
Lets face it, we are all humans, we sometimes tend to bottle things up rather than express them, and soon thereafter there is an explosion of sorts. But that is not to say that you want to go speaking your mind every chance you get and letting things fly just for the sake of offending your mate or date. But sometimes an open dialogue is quite refeshing and therepudic. Just maybe your sweetheart did not know what was on your mind or knew that you felt particularly strong about a certain something. Guess what? If you told him, he might just get mad at first but then you may soon realize that he has more respect for you because now he knows how you feel and operate.
How Do I Avoid That "Uncomfortable Silence" On A Date?
You know talking to your date can sometimes be hard. I think the more crazy you get in your conversations, the better. The reason I say this is because the mind works in crazy ways. You can start talking about your first job and end up steering the conversation into something totally unrelated, like something funny that happened to you a long time ago while on your way to school.The point I'm trying to make is that our minds work by association. Just picture your conversations with your date as one big crossroad. You may start on one road that leads to another road etc, etc. I think that is what makes it so fun. My mother once told me that once you stop talking to your mate its like the song just ends. Please check out our Top 50 First Date Questions so that you can improve your chances of convincing her to come out on a second date. Believe it or not, these dating questions could just as easily apply to any couple, not just necessarily on a first date. Check them out!