So you finally managed to convince that cute girl you been lusting over to come out on a date with you. Nice! You planned everything well. Hopefully you chose a nice quiet spot from our Romantic Cafe page. You looking and smelling like a million bucks, and you feeling like you are on top of the world. Now, realize that first dates can be absolutely nerve-racking. They are also viewed very differently by men and women. A first date to the average guy consist of dinner and if everything goes superbly well, then maybe an invite upstairs for some coffee (wink * wink). A first date to a girl is just the total opposite.
The average female looks at a first date as a perfect opportunity to disqualify a guy. So in essence, the female wants to find out the many reasons why she should not go on a second date with that guy sitting across the table from her. Logically the surest way to do that is to probe and ask questions about the guy she is on a date with. So guys believe it or now, one of the fastest ways to lose your date's interest is to get jam up in a mood kill conversation.
Your mission is to entertain her without revealing weird information that would turn her off and ruin your chances for a second date. You should definitely take control of the conversation, but at the same time you should show her that you are interested in what she is saying. Interest can be demonstrated by saying stuff like "really," "please continue," "did that really happen," and so forth while she is speaking. The surest way to ruin your chances with a female during a first date is to "let silence in" during your date.
The conversation topics must be light and funny. No controversial topics or depressing subjects. The conversation has to show that you are fun, exciting, and not desperate. You have to keep the conversation fresh and flowing. To do that, I have put together the ultimate top 50 attraction building conversation questions to keep your date hanging on to your every word.
1. Do you work with any guys better looking than me?
2. How big is your family?
3. What type of friends do you keep?
4. Are you the leader or the follower in your circle of girlfriends?
5. Do you like fast cars?
6. Do you think movie stars should be idolized?
7. What type of music do you listen to when driving?
8. Do you keep in contact with your past boyfriends?
9. Do you like being kissed on the hands?
10. What is the coolest thing you have ever done?
11. Have you ever been hit on while flying?
12. Where do you like to shop?
13. What was the most relaxing year you ever had?
14. What is one dessert you can't live without?
15. Favorite alcoholic drink?
16. Which cologne does she likes?
17. Favorite beach?
18. Was she a teacher's pet?
19. Her favorite wine?
20. Favorite thing to do in the summer?
21. What would she do if she won the lottery?
22. The most romantic thing a guy can do for her?
23. Has she ever adopted a pet?
24. Does she have a pet name?
25. Her all time favorite snack?
26. Favorite form of exercise?
27. Does she prefer washing the plates or cooking the dinner?
28. Does she sleep better when it rains?
29. Is she a leader or follower?
30. How old was she during her first kiss?
31. What is a perfect day for her?
32. Name of her first crush?
33. Major turn-on?
34. Wildest college party?
35. Coolest country she visited?
36. Best vacation destination?
37. If she could live forever who would she miss most?
38. Places she has to visit before turning 50?
39. Ideal romantic spot?
40. Yankees or Mets?
41. Vegas or Foxwoods?
42. Trekee?
43. Favorite artist?
44. Coolest bar she's ever been to?
45. Roller blades or ice skating?
46. Is she a Day or night person?
47. Would she ever do a Paris Hilton?
48. Would she ever kiss a girl on a dare?
49. Best Spring-Break ever?
50. Coolest Halloween costume party she ever been to?
The average female looks at a first date as a perfect opportunity to disqualify a guy. So in essence, the female wants to find out the many reasons why she should not go on a second date with that guy sitting across the table from her. Logically the surest way to do that is to probe and ask questions about the guy she is on a date with. So guys believe it or now, one of the fastest ways to lose your date's interest is to get jam up in a mood kill conversation.
Your mission is to entertain her without revealing weird information that would turn her off and ruin your chances for a second date. You should definitely take control of the conversation, but at the same time you should show her that you are interested in what she is saying. Interest can be demonstrated by saying stuff like "really," "please continue," "did that really happen," and so forth while she is speaking. The surest way to ruin your chances with a female during a first date is to "let silence in" during your date.
The conversation topics must be light and funny. No controversial topics or depressing subjects. The conversation has to show that you are fun, exciting, and not desperate. You have to keep the conversation fresh and flowing. To do that, I have put together the ultimate top 50 attraction building conversation questions to keep your date hanging on to your every word.
1. Do you work with any guys better looking than me?
2. How big is your family?
3. What type of friends do you keep?
4. Are you the leader or the follower in your circle of girlfriends?
5. Do you like fast cars?
6. Do you think movie stars should be idolized?
7. What type of music do you listen to when driving?
8. Do you keep in contact with your past boyfriends?
9. Do you like being kissed on the hands?
10. What is the coolest thing you have ever done?
11. Have you ever been hit on while flying?
12. Where do you like to shop?
13. What was the most relaxing year you ever had?
14. What is one dessert you can't live without?
15. Favorite alcoholic drink?
16. Which cologne does she likes?
17. Favorite beach?
18. Was she a teacher's pet?
19. Her favorite wine?
20. Favorite thing to do in the summer?
21. What would she do if she won the lottery?
22. The most romantic thing a guy can do for her?
23. Has she ever adopted a pet?
24. Does she have a pet name?
25. Her all time favorite snack?
26. Favorite form of exercise?
27. Does she prefer washing the plates or cooking the dinner?
28. Does she sleep better when it rains?
29. Is she a leader or follower?
30. How old was she during her first kiss?
31. What is a perfect day for her?
32. Name of her first crush?
33. Major turn-on?
34. Wildest college party?
35. Coolest country she visited?
36. Best vacation destination?
37. If she could live forever who would she miss most?
38. Places she has to visit before turning 50?
39. Ideal romantic spot?
40. Yankees or Mets?
41. Vegas or Foxwoods?
42. Trekee?
43. Favorite artist?
44. Coolest bar she's ever been to?
45. Roller blades or ice skating?
46. Is she a Day or night person?
47. Would she ever do a Paris Hilton?
48. Would she ever kiss a girl on a dare?
49. Best Spring-Break ever?
50. Coolest Halloween costume party she ever been to?