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Top 10 Night Clubs & Lounges

When we speak of hot night clubs, we speak of unique spots ideal for a second or third date where you can dance or just listen to music. These spots are not ideal for a first date because they are simply too loud and would not allow for much one on one conversation. However, they are very much conducive to breaking the ice and allowing you to display your skills on the dance floor.

China Club (10)

This is one hot spot that knows how to pack them in. The trick to having a great time with a lady friend here is to arrive early. In order to keep the female to male ratio in harmony, this club without exception will not allow single guys to walk in without the company of a female, so with that said do not make the mistake of meeting your lady friend inside the club. On most Saturday nights you will spot a celebrity here and there. The ambience is classy and the music mix is second to none.

268 W. 47th St., New York, NY 10036: (212) 398-3800

Webster Hall (9)

Webster Hall Fridays are legendary. This hot spot boast 40,000 square feet of pure dancing space and 6 rooms of music. The basement is usually packed with the reggae heads, while the first floor is light house & pop, the upper floors are Hip-Hop and there is even a salsa room. Arrive early and be rewarded, as most nights ladies are FREE till 11pm and fellas are FREE 21 and over till 11pm

125 E 11th Street, New York, NY: (212) 353-1600

Copacabana (8)

This hot spot was featured in classic movies as Goodfellas and Carlito's Way. This club takes Salsa to another level, so come but be prepared to be taken to school by the old timers. The ambiance is classy and inviting.

560 West 34th Street, New York NY 10001: (212) 239-2672

Naked Lunch (7)

If you are in the soho area, and want to have a great night out, then this is the spot to hit. The name is provacative, the music is so 80's, the crowd is so relaxed that that you almost forget that you are in New York, this is the plot that puts this hotspot on the map. On the downside, the place is tiny and it can really get packed.

17 Thompson St New York, NY 10013 Phone: (212) 343-0828

Pacha (6)

If you have been to Europe lately, then you would probably recognize this club's name. This is the place to go to see the united nation on the dance floor. The crowd is very evenly mixed. The decor is very easy on the eyes, and even have palm trees to boot. If you come to drink then you may find the prices a bit steep, but overall the music selection is hot.

618 W. 46th Street, New York, NY: (212) 209-7500

Element (5)

Another hot spot where your lady friend will definitely be impressed. The space is huge, featuring three bars and seductive lounges. The music is bribrant and the live performances are something to see.

225 East Houston Street, New York, NY 10002: (212) 254-2200

The Manor(4)

This one definitely ranks among the most elegant clubs around, decked out with an unheard of 24-karat gold booth for the special resident DJ. This is a very popular spot, so be prepared to wait on the long lines that can form outside.

73 8th Ave New York, NY 10014: (212) 463-0022

APT (3)

This Meatpacking District locale is popular with the locals, not only because it has a non-club atmosphere but also because how the owners were able to combine a bar and lounge that so flawlessly compliment each other. If you want to impress your date, take him/her to the upstairs lounge.

419 W 13th St, New York, NY 10014: (212) 414-4245

Marquee (2)

This posh Chelsea space is a perferct hotspot to go for a relaxing evening. This spot is the playing grounds to the hip and beatiful model types. You have to be in the know, or at least be on the guest-list to get pass the velvet ropes.

289 10th Ave New York, NY 10001: (646) 473-0202

Club Duvet (1)

The key words here are comfort, fashion and did I mention beds! Be forwarned that the dress code here is stricly enforced. Dress to impress or risk not being allowed inside. There are lots of pretty people here, so keep your wondering eyes to a limit and avoid disaster with your date.

45 W. 21st St., New York , NY: (212) 989-2121


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